Hello World:
If you recall from some of my recent posts I mentioned several commandments that God gave to us, that are different from the original Ten, or lets say well known "Ten". Most recently I discussed the commandment God set AGAINST harming the "SECRETS" of a man, and I elaborated further as the Lord led.
I talked about the commandment set concerning God being against divorce. I talked about commandments concerning God being against homosexuality. I also talked about the commandment of God being against a rebellious child, and how He is to be handled, and the various consequences of a rebellious, and untaught child.
In this post, I want to mention or try to get to another commandment that is not preached about. That commandment is that God is very much against tattoos. Also, this is a specific commandment too, and I will elaborate. However, before I go into tattoos, I want to follow-up some of the things I already mentioned in recent posts.
Concerning rebellious teenagers, back during Moses time they were stoned to death rather quickly. Today, because of Jesus, before you do anything extreme as a parent, I am not talking about as a victim, but as the parent; before you do anything extreme, you want to be praying for them first. This is why it is important to properly train kids the way of God "when they are LITTLE", giving them both love and discipline, that way when they grow up to be teenagers they will, "hopefully", act with more sense.
Also, parents do not get mad at me for calling for retaliation against your rebellious children. God does not approve of rebellious children, and according to Him their evil behavior is the pathway to death. Do not be so surprised, crying to the news media because someone killed your child, "IF" YOUR CHILD DID NOT MIND HIS BUSINESS, AND STARTED "ANY" KIND OF MESS WITH SOME ADULT STRANGER. Do not give me legal procedures to follow and obeying the law either. How about telling your children about obeying the law, then you will not have to see me post all of this. What I am talking about is STREET LIFE, or the WAY OF THE STREET, where when you mess with people, at some point, one of those you messed with will end your "career".
TEENAGERS IF YOU COME ACROSS THIS POST, LISTEN TO ME. IF YOU WANT TO FOOL AROUND AND MESS WITH PEOPLE OR THEIR PROPERTY; WHO HAVE DONE NOTHING TO YOU, YOU COULD DIE! YOU COULD DIE A HORRIBLE AND PAINFUL DEATH. YOUR DEATH WILL NOT BE FUNNY OR COOL. ALSO, YOU WILL GO TO HELL, AND HELL IS NOT COOL, NOT FUN AND NOT PRETTY. HELL IS REAL, AND FOR ALOT OF FOLKS IT IS SADLY "WHATS HAPPENING".
IN HELL, YOU WILL BE TORMENTED "FOREVER" IN PAIN AND SUFFERING FOREVER. IN OTHER WORDS, IN HELL, YOUR PAIN WILL NOT STOP OR END. MOMMY OR DADDY WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SAVE YOU FROM HELL. CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES WILL NOT SAVE YOUR BEHIND FROM HELL, TEENAGERS!
IN HELL YOU WILL BE CONTROLLED, AND YOUR BEHIND WILL BE WHIPPED AND YOUR SOUL TORN APART CONSTANTLY; AND YOU WILL BURN, AND YOU WILL "CONTINUOUSLY" FEEL EVERY BIT OF HELL.
THERE ARE ALOT OF "SUPPOSEDLY" VERY SMART, INTELLIGENT AND COOL PEOPLE BEING TORMENTED IN HELL. ONCE YOU GO TO HELL, YOU DO NOT GET OUT OR ESCAPE EVER. YOU CAN NOT HACK THE SYSTEM, OR USE SOME SORT OF GENIUS WAY OF THINKING TO ESCAPE HELL, ONCE YOU DIE AND GO THERE.
IN HELL, THERE IS NO NEGOTIATING OR TALKING YOUR WAY OUT OF IT. IN HELL THERE IS NO COMPROMISE, AND YOU ABSOLUTELY CAN "NOT" WIN. IN HELL, YOU ARE THE TRUE LOSER. SO, IF YOUR PARENTS DO NOT HAVE ENOUGH SENSE TO TELL YOU ALL OF THAT, THEN I JUST DID. TEENAGERS, REPENT AND TURN TO JESUS NOW; AND SIN NO MORE, TO ESCAPE EVERLASTING TORMENT.
BEING A CHILD IS "NO" EXCUSE for acting a fool. Every child does not hurt other people, or bother other people's property. When I was a teenager I did not bother no one, do YOU hear me parents? I know other teenagers who were like me, who did not do stupid stuff that would get themselves killed various ways. So, if me and others like me can be respectable and not bother others, then I am sure you can work on making sure your child behave respectably as well.
AGAIN, THERE IS "NO" EXCUSE FOR TEENAGERS TO USE COLD BLOODED OR UNPROVOKED EVIL and MALICIOUS ACTIONS, AND HARRASSMENT UPON ANOTHER PERSON. You can "water down" their behavior all you want. AS, I SAID BEFORE, IT IS NOT HARMLESS, AND IT IS NOT FUN; GOD SAYS DEATH TO THEM, SO YOU "CHILL" before your sons and daughters fall into HELL FOR ETERNITY.
So, much for talking about tattoos. The Lord led me a little differently here. I will, most likely, go briefly into the tattoo commandment next time. I want to post some more follow-ups statements on recent posts I did, like I just finished here, because of length of the original subjects.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
High Heels, Pumps And Good Baggage Part 3
Hello World:
This is part 3 of my high heels series, and I want to say that I will be all over the place with different subjects here in this post. I want to mention some things about 2008 Holy week first. I actually had scheduled this to be posted on March 20th. However, because in many parts of the world it was Holy week, I decided to wait until after Holy week to continue to talk about high heels, etc.
The Lord did not force me to do that, it is something I just decided to do. I have pre-posted some things, and got ahead of schedule, and around resurrection week, it just so happens I was on the high heels subject. So, just to let everyone know, I purposely did "NOT" plan on ignoring Jesus during resurrection week.
It is just the way I had my post already scheduled. By the way, I do want to say, as years may go by and I continue to post, I will not always talk or post things to match the timing of holidays. Those holidays, include the Lord's holidays. Besides that, anyone with internet access can read things about Jesus and God all throughout my blog at anytime.
On to the high heels and other things in relation. The Lord led me to come back and say something about actually wearing high heels, that I did not mention before. First, there is a time in which you do not want to be wearing high heels; that is if you have to run away from danger! That is very important, when running, "especially" from danger, you want to be wearing something flat and flexible on your feet. However, however, however; it is important for women to be comfortable wearing and walking in high heels.
If someone gives or buys you a pair of high heels, and you are not used to wearing them, you have to practice wearing high heels. You have to use your leg muscles, and practice proper upright walking posture. You have to have the look, but you also have to have the walk too. You do not want to look clumsy, or like you are about to fall. You want to feel comfortable, confident, strong and sexy, and you should be able to walk like "it" in high heels.
Every women should own several pairs of high heels. High heels are actually "good baggage" for women. High heels are good baggage that should be brought into a marriage by women. For women, before leaving home to get married, do not leave home without the high heels.
Lately, I have heard from people about how their relationships are falling apart, even church people. Apparently, everybody's marriage goes through the same or similiar trying problems. In many cases counselling does not help, and the pastor or preacher can not help. However, perhaps I can here.
Well, maybe every couple goes through the same difficult things, because they follow the "so-called" Godly or righteous example, model or pattern of marriage, "supposedly", that actually may not be of God, and does not work. I know I am not married, but I know people who are married, and people who used to be married. More importantly, I hear from God. If you are following what is supposedly God's example, model or pattern, then your marriage should not fail, or would not have failed already. Are you following the example or pattern that God has specifically to work for your marriage?
Now, again, you may think you as a couple are doing everything according to God's way, but actually you are not; and you are going down a path of failure and do not see it. No one is perfect, and there still can be problems, but let me say this of the Lord. The Lord has enabled me to have a very high success rate in making alot of things work.
No matter what the situation is in my life, I have an enormous tendency to solve problems and make things work. I do not make the critical errors or the big mistake. I prevent disasters. I think about and try to examine everything that could go wrong, and how to prevent it or deal with it before it happens. It does not matter what the situation is. I have done this only because of the Lord helping me, and giving me wisdom. I am nothing without Yahweh, God.
Therefore, if I was married, I am sure with God's help, I would figure that out, and solve the problems within my marriage, to keep the marriage together. Often, you have to be honest in addressing the problems, and listening to the other person's side. Then you have to think differently. You have to think unorthodox, or outside the box; and God may want you to think that way. Sometimes the solution may not be what you expect.
I do advise counselling. You should be open to counselling avenues; but your counselor could help you, then again, they could also tell you the wrong things. Your pastor or preacher could also give the wrong advice. Those people are human, and there are alot of couples in churches who still get divorced. You may have to do something totally different from what your pastor is saying. You have to think, ask God to help you understand, and make it work where both parties are satisfied or comfortable to stay together.
I have tried not to present scriptures in these last couple of posts, because these posts are long enough; and the Lord has led me to talk this way on this subject. However, in the Bible, Isaac sported with Rebekah, his wife. So the question to men is, are you sporting your wife like you supposed to? That is a "personal question"and "private matter" for couples to think about. Please do not give me the answer. Men should sport their wives more than being involved in those other sports.
Listen, just because you are saved and sanctified does not mean you can not have fun with your wife. Also again, as I said before in a previous post, all of this I am talking about, does NOT mean babies upon babies, UNDERSTOOD MEN! I want to be CLEAR about that also. Another thing about looking a certain way for your spouse, Husbands be prepared if your wife wants you to dress a certain way too. She meets your desires, so you need to meet her's. Again make sure that everything is mutually agreed upon with the wife.
On another point, many women, which includes single and married, do "NOT" need make-overs. There are too many women who get make-overs who do not need to go through the extremes of such. I see alot of women, and the Lord shows me this, who have nothing wrong with them in the area of beauty.
They either feel a certain way, because they are not complimented, or they received wrong advice from friends. I could say more about this part, in terms of feeling and looking naturally feminine; but there are alot, or MANY, MANY women out there who look just fine the way you are and always was.
Your long hair is fine, your teeth are fine, your face is fine, and very important to emphasize,"YOU ARE PHYSICALLY IN SHAPE". You do not need a reduction or an expansion. You look naturally beautiful. The "regular efforts" that you put in to take care of yourself, that gives you that unique "you look" works! Again, I could say more. Many of you women look perfect just the way God made you, and you need to be around the right person who will tell you that. You got it going on, and you got the looks that make it happen.
I want to throw this in, that if anything, alot of women do not get enough protein in their diet, and they are skinny or underweight. It is important for women to consume proper amounts of protein to have a healthy body and gain the right weight, along with calcium and other vitamins and minerals to have a strong frame. You want to have some meat on those arms and legs, but be toned.
There are also, some women, like men too, who let themselves go, and get over weight, etc. As you get older you have to do some extra work. However again, for many other women if you need a change, it may be only a very little change or minor change that is needed. Not much change, and should not cost much. Hope to return soon.
This is part 3 of my high heels series, and I want to say that I will be all over the place with different subjects here in this post. I want to mention some things about 2008 Holy week first. I actually had scheduled this to be posted on March 20th. However, because in many parts of the world it was Holy week, I decided to wait until after Holy week to continue to talk about high heels, etc.
The Lord did not force me to do that, it is something I just decided to do. I have pre-posted some things, and got ahead of schedule, and around resurrection week, it just so happens I was on the high heels subject. So, just to let everyone know, I purposely did "NOT" plan on ignoring Jesus during resurrection week.
It is just the way I had my post already scheduled. By the way, I do want to say, as years may go by and I continue to post, I will not always talk or post things to match the timing of holidays. Those holidays, include the Lord's holidays. Besides that, anyone with internet access can read things about Jesus and God all throughout my blog at anytime.
On to the high heels and other things in relation. The Lord led me to come back and say something about actually wearing high heels, that I did not mention before. First, there is a time in which you do not want to be wearing high heels; that is if you have to run away from danger! That is very important, when running, "especially" from danger, you want to be wearing something flat and flexible on your feet. However, however, however; it is important for women to be comfortable wearing and walking in high heels.
If someone gives or buys you a pair of high heels, and you are not used to wearing them, you have to practice wearing high heels. You have to use your leg muscles, and practice proper upright walking posture. You have to have the look, but you also have to have the walk too. You do not want to look clumsy, or like you are about to fall. You want to feel comfortable, confident, strong and sexy, and you should be able to walk like "it" in high heels.
Every women should own several pairs of high heels. High heels are actually "good baggage" for women. High heels are good baggage that should be brought into a marriage by women. For women, before leaving home to get married, do not leave home without the high heels.
Lately, I have heard from people about how their relationships are falling apart, even church people. Apparently, everybody's marriage goes through the same or similiar trying problems. In many cases counselling does not help, and the pastor or preacher can not help. However, perhaps I can here.
Well, maybe every couple goes through the same difficult things, because they follow the "so-called" Godly or righteous example, model or pattern of marriage, "supposedly", that actually may not be of God, and does not work. I know I am not married, but I know people who are married, and people who used to be married. More importantly, I hear from God. If you are following what is supposedly God's example, model or pattern, then your marriage should not fail, or would not have failed already. Are you following the example or pattern that God has specifically to work for your marriage?
Now, again, you may think you as a couple are doing everything according to God's way, but actually you are not; and you are going down a path of failure and do not see it. No one is perfect, and there still can be problems, but let me say this of the Lord. The Lord has enabled me to have a very high success rate in making alot of things work.
No matter what the situation is in my life, I have an enormous tendency to solve problems and make things work. I do not make the critical errors or the big mistake. I prevent disasters. I think about and try to examine everything that could go wrong, and how to prevent it or deal with it before it happens. It does not matter what the situation is. I have done this only because of the Lord helping me, and giving me wisdom. I am nothing without Yahweh, God.
Therefore, if I was married, I am sure with God's help, I would figure that out, and solve the problems within my marriage, to keep the marriage together. Often, you have to be honest in addressing the problems, and listening to the other person's side. Then you have to think differently. You have to think unorthodox, or outside the box; and God may want you to think that way. Sometimes the solution may not be what you expect.
I do advise counselling. You should be open to counselling avenues; but your counselor could help you, then again, they could also tell you the wrong things. Your pastor or preacher could also give the wrong advice. Those people are human, and there are alot of couples in churches who still get divorced. You may have to do something totally different from what your pastor is saying. You have to think, ask God to help you understand, and make it work where both parties are satisfied or comfortable to stay together.
I have tried not to present scriptures in these last couple of posts, because these posts are long enough; and the Lord has led me to talk this way on this subject. However, in the Bible, Isaac sported with Rebekah, his wife. So the question to men is, are you sporting your wife like you supposed to? That is a "personal question"and "private matter" for couples to think about. Please do not give me the answer. Men should sport their wives more than being involved in those other sports.
Listen, just because you are saved and sanctified does not mean you can not have fun with your wife. Also again, as I said before in a previous post, all of this I am talking about, does NOT mean babies upon babies, UNDERSTOOD MEN! I want to be CLEAR about that also. Another thing about looking a certain way for your spouse, Husbands be prepared if your wife wants you to dress a certain way too. She meets your desires, so you need to meet her's. Again make sure that everything is mutually agreed upon with the wife.
On another point, many women, which includes single and married, do "NOT" need make-overs. There are too many women who get make-overs who do not need to go through the extremes of such. I see alot of women, and the Lord shows me this, who have nothing wrong with them in the area of beauty.
They either feel a certain way, because they are not complimented, or they received wrong advice from friends. I could say more about this part, in terms of feeling and looking naturally feminine; but there are alot, or MANY, MANY women out there who look just fine the way you are and always was.
Your long hair is fine, your teeth are fine, your face is fine, and very important to emphasize,"YOU ARE PHYSICALLY IN SHAPE". You do not need a reduction or an expansion. You look naturally beautiful. The "regular efforts" that you put in to take care of yourself, that gives you that unique "you look" works! Again, I could say more. Many of you women look perfect just the way God made you, and you need to be around the right person who will tell you that. You got it going on, and you got the looks that make it happen.
I want to throw this in, that if anything, alot of women do not get enough protein in their diet, and they are skinny or underweight. It is important for women to consume proper amounts of protein to have a healthy body and gain the right weight, along with calcium and other vitamins and minerals to have a strong frame. You want to have some meat on those arms and legs, but be toned.
There are also, some women, like men too, who let themselves go, and get over weight, etc. As you get older you have to do some extra work. However again, for many other women if you need a change, it may be only a very little change or minor change that is needed. Not much change, and should not cost much. Hope to return soon.
Saturday, March 15, 2008
High Heels, Pumps And More Marriage Items Part 2
Hello World:
I want to continue from the previous post with high heels, beautiful women and making sure your spouse feels good. Even though the Lord spoke to me and I took notes on this subject, I did not expect to say some of the things I said in the previous post to this one. Alot of what I said was not planned; but perhaps it will help someone or several people.
I want to quickly continue something from that last post without trying to sound too spiritual here. You want to be spiritual unto God and to your spouse, but God moreso. However, in being spiritual you want to be careful as to not neglect your wife's or husband's natural needs.
Now, in talking previously about being beautiful. Women should look beautiful and it is okay to show off their beauty; just keep it in the right perspective as with all things. Also, very important, it is very much okay for an older women to look and dress young. More specifically, if you are in your 40s or 50s and you want to look like you are in your 20s and 30s, in terms of dress, there is nothing wrong with that. It is what makes you feel comfortable, and not necessarily how society or talk show hosts and their audiences think you should look. As, you all may know me in this, I always say it is okay to be different, and not follow the crowd, because in crisis moments the crowd could be very wrong. Of course make sure you take care of yourself at any age, and actually have something worth showing, and not just showing anything. You want to wear your personality and not someone else's. You do not have to please the experts on how you should dress.
Women you want to make your husband feel good just like you want to feel good. By the way, women should look more beautiful than men. As, I also said previously, most men want a beautiful looking woman. They do not want someone or a spouse that looks like them. I know I do not. I do not want to be married to someone who looks like a "dude". I want a woman that is feminine.
All women, have to understand that they have a God-given gift of beauty. You as a grown woman are suppose to look beautiful and feminine, and grown men will look at you and notice. This is "one" of the natural life roles of being a woman. Women primarily should look physically beautiful, and men primarily should be physically strong.
Women you all must be comfortable with your bodies. Each woman may be different in proportions; but each woman, if she takes care of herself, can still look good with "whatever" physical aspects she has. It is okay to have a nicely proportioned figure, legs, breasts, a pretty face and long flowing hair. If you want your hair to be short that is your choice. I know alot of guys who like long flowing hair. Speaking from many men's point of view, long flowing hair is very beautiful. Alot of women who have cut their hair want to grow it back. So, however you choose to look, know that you are endowed to look beautiful.
As a beautiful woman you do not have to be ashamed of your beauty. One thing the Lord kept speaking to me about was a woman wearing a bonnet; "almost" like a blue bonnet wearing woman all covered up. Okay, a man usually does not want a woman who looks like a blue bonnet wearing woman that is covered from head to toes in a long dress and circular hat and shows nothing but eyes, nose and face cheeks.
Men are very visual as I said before. It is important for you to have confidence and show yourself to your husband. Your husband needs to see your figure and he needs to see your skin. You should not be walking around in a curtain all day. This is very important to a healthy and lasting marriage relationship. If you do not reveal yourself to your husband, he may be inclined to go to another woman who will reveal herself to him. This is why men sometimes cheat on their wives and have affairs. Because some wives do not show their husbands anything or show him enough; and/or they do not give their husbands anything or enough either.
When the husband cheats, because he is deprived it may not be right, but in many cases the woman is to "partly" blame. Now, there are some men, who have wives, who are very good to them in all other areas; but the men still are ungrateful or unappreciative and do their wives wrong by going with someone else or physically or verbally mistreating her. God will get those men if they do not repent and treat their wives right. God will make sure their actions come back to haunt them unless they repent.
There are many men out there, who do not know how blessed they are with the woman they have. I see some of the wives of some famous people, and the wives are just "off-the-chart" beautiful, and the husbands cheat on them or abuse them. And I am sitting back thinking, are you guys crazy? Are you husbands out of your mind? I wish I could be married to someone who looks like that. Alot of men blow relationships, and really do not know how good they had it.
Now men need to know the woman's style before he agrees to marry her. The style that the woman has that you fell in love with, after you both get married she should keep that style. If the husband want the wife to incorporate something different those possibilities should be discussed before marriage. The possibility of change by "any" of the partners should be discussed "together".
Let me say, again from the last post before this one, women, if your husband want you to wear high heels, pumps, open toes or slingbacks sometimes in love-making or prelude to love-making or whenever, please do not kill him. In fact, if the husband wants you to wear several sexy outfits please do not harm your husband, especially all you "holy Christian" women.
Give in some to the husband, wear make-up, or whatever He ask that does not physically hurt you. Husbands make sure that the women have comfortable heels. It is scientifically proven that some types of heels, or wearing heels too much, does damage the feet of women and cause knee and back problems. So, heels are sexy, but you want to be careful and not over do it.
Alot of women love high heels or pumps, and wear them, knowing that they can be a burden on their bodies. I am very glad that there a women out there who wear high heels, dresses, skirts and different types of lingerie. Women continue to wear those things. Continue to wear high heels, just keep a pair of flats near by. Now, with that said, there are alot of high heels that are better designed, today, to help give comfort to the woman. For the woman you want high heels or pumps that allows for wider toe room.
You, as women, do not want your toes to be squeezed too tight at the toe part of the shoe, because it will cause you pain and discomfort and other foot damage. Make sure that the front of the high heels have a slightly oval shape to them for the best foot comfort. There are some high heels that although they are pointy at the ends, allow for adequate toe space for the woman. So, they look very stylish and sharp, literally, or pointed, but the woman has toe room and comfort.
Also, you need to watch the stitching on the back of the heel, that is important to protect scarring of the back of the foot. Also you want to possibly get a wide-back heel shoe, for better leverage and safety when the woman walks. Those are some things to keep in mind for the husband wanting the wife to wear high heels.
Husbands and men do not just fit your woman into anything, but give her both comfort and quality. You as the husband want to enjoy the look, but you also want her to enjoy the look too, and for her to enjoy you enjoying her. Yes, my wife will have high heels or pumps, and wear other feminine and sexy clothes. I can guarantee that me and my wife would have alot of fun. Yes, I will have a part 3 to this high heels topic coming next.
I want to continue from the previous post with high heels, beautiful women and making sure your spouse feels good. Even though the Lord spoke to me and I took notes on this subject, I did not expect to say some of the things I said in the previous post to this one. Alot of what I said was not planned; but perhaps it will help someone or several people.
I want to quickly continue something from that last post without trying to sound too spiritual here. You want to be spiritual unto God and to your spouse, but God moreso. However, in being spiritual you want to be careful as to not neglect your wife's or husband's natural needs.
Now, in talking previously about being beautiful. Women should look beautiful and it is okay to show off their beauty; just keep it in the right perspective as with all things. Also, very important, it is very much okay for an older women to look and dress young. More specifically, if you are in your 40s or 50s and you want to look like you are in your 20s and 30s, in terms of dress, there is nothing wrong with that. It is what makes you feel comfortable, and not necessarily how society or talk show hosts and their audiences think you should look. As, you all may know me in this, I always say it is okay to be different, and not follow the crowd, because in crisis moments the crowd could be very wrong. Of course make sure you take care of yourself at any age, and actually have something worth showing, and not just showing anything. You want to wear your personality and not someone else's. You do not have to please the experts on how you should dress.
Women you want to make your husband feel good just like you want to feel good. By the way, women should look more beautiful than men. As, I also said previously, most men want a beautiful looking woman. They do not want someone or a spouse that looks like them. I know I do not. I do not want to be married to someone who looks like a "dude". I want a woman that is feminine.
All women, have to understand that they have a God-given gift of beauty. You as a grown woman are suppose to look beautiful and feminine, and grown men will look at you and notice. This is "one" of the natural life roles of being a woman. Women primarily should look physically beautiful, and men primarily should be physically strong.
Women you all must be comfortable with your bodies. Each woman may be different in proportions; but each woman, if she takes care of herself, can still look good with "whatever" physical aspects she has. It is okay to have a nicely proportioned figure, legs, breasts, a pretty face and long flowing hair. If you want your hair to be short that is your choice. I know alot of guys who like long flowing hair. Speaking from many men's point of view, long flowing hair is very beautiful. Alot of women who have cut their hair want to grow it back. So, however you choose to look, know that you are endowed to look beautiful.
As a beautiful woman you do not have to be ashamed of your beauty. One thing the Lord kept speaking to me about was a woman wearing a bonnet; "almost" like a blue bonnet wearing woman all covered up. Okay, a man usually does not want a woman who looks like a blue bonnet wearing woman that is covered from head to toes in a long dress and circular hat and shows nothing but eyes, nose and face cheeks.
Men are very visual as I said before. It is important for you to have confidence and show yourself to your husband. Your husband needs to see your figure and he needs to see your skin. You should not be walking around in a curtain all day. This is very important to a healthy and lasting marriage relationship. If you do not reveal yourself to your husband, he may be inclined to go to another woman who will reveal herself to him. This is why men sometimes cheat on their wives and have affairs. Because some wives do not show their husbands anything or show him enough; and/or they do not give their husbands anything or enough either.
When the husband cheats, because he is deprived it may not be right, but in many cases the woman is to "partly" blame. Now, there are some men, who have wives, who are very good to them in all other areas; but the men still are ungrateful or unappreciative and do their wives wrong by going with someone else or physically or verbally mistreating her. God will get those men if they do not repent and treat their wives right. God will make sure their actions come back to haunt them unless they repent.
There are many men out there, who do not know how blessed they are with the woman they have. I see some of the wives of some famous people, and the wives are just "off-the-chart" beautiful, and the husbands cheat on them or abuse them. And I am sitting back thinking, are you guys crazy? Are you husbands out of your mind? I wish I could be married to someone who looks like that. Alot of men blow relationships, and really do not know how good they had it.
Now men need to know the woman's style before he agrees to marry her. The style that the woman has that you fell in love with, after you both get married she should keep that style. If the husband want the wife to incorporate something different those possibilities should be discussed before marriage. The possibility of change by "any" of the partners should be discussed "together".
Let me say, again from the last post before this one, women, if your husband want you to wear high heels, pumps, open toes or slingbacks sometimes in love-making or prelude to love-making or whenever, please do not kill him. In fact, if the husband wants you to wear several sexy outfits please do not harm your husband, especially all you "holy Christian" women.
Give in some to the husband, wear make-up, or whatever He ask that does not physically hurt you. Husbands make sure that the women have comfortable heels. It is scientifically proven that some types of heels, or wearing heels too much, does damage the feet of women and cause knee and back problems. So, heels are sexy, but you want to be careful and not over do it.
Alot of women love high heels or pumps, and wear them, knowing that they can be a burden on their bodies. I am very glad that there a women out there who wear high heels, dresses, skirts and different types of lingerie. Women continue to wear those things. Continue to wear high heels, just keep a pair of flats near by. Now, with that said, there are alot of high heels that are better designed, today, to help give comfort to the woman. For the woman you want high heels or pumps that allows for wider toe room.
You, as women, do not want your toes to be squeezed too tight at the toe part of the shoe, because it will cause you pain and discomfort and other foot damage. Make sure that the front of the high heels have a slightly oval shape to them for the best foot comfort. There are some high heels that although they are pointy at the ends, allow for adequate toe space for the woman. So, they look very stylish and sharp, literally, or pointed, but the woman has toe room and comfort.
Also, you need to watch the stitching on the back of the heel, that is important to protect scarring of the back of the foot. Also you want to possibly get a wide-back heel shoe, for better leverage and safety when the woman walks. Those are some things to keep in mind for the husband wanting the wife to wear high heels.
Husbands and men do not just fit your woman into anything, but give her both comfort and quality. You as the husband want to enjoy the look, but you also want her to enjoy the look too, and for her to enjoy you enjoying her. Yes, my wife will have high heels or pumps, and wear other feminine and sexy clothes. I can guarantee that me and my wife would have alot of fun. Yes, I will have a part 3 to this high heels topic coming next.
Friday, March 07, 2008
High Heels, Pumps and Other Marriage Items
Hello World:
I am going to mention some things about high heels or pumps right here, further down in this post. I really had to ask the Lord if it was okay to do this post, because it probably will stir up protest from the "holiness community". I was really asking the Lord and contemplating about this. However, the Lord spoke to me and said do it. In addition to this, during the week as I was preparing for this post, other preachers were talking about some of the things I have and am discussing in several of my post on marriage relationships.
The same thing also happened with several other post in the past. So, I believe this is also confirmation from the Lord to speak. Do not look for a whole lot of spirituality in this post and maybe the next one. I believe I am going to be very natural in this post, and several of the next post. I talk about spiritual things all the time. However, I do NOT believe that a couple should mix their spirit life and sex life together. I feel led of the Lord to say that. Too many ministers when talking about relationships between a man and a women, try to throw spirituality in the mix. One thing, being spiritual is unto the Lord, and being sexual is unto your wife or husband, NOT to God. You can still both be spiritual, but there is a time and place for each separately. I will refrain posting the scriptures, for now, from Ecclesiastes 3:1-8. Being spiritual is different from being sexual.
Do not blame it on God, if you can not satisfy your spouse. It is not God's fault. You as a husband or wife need to look at yourself. You do want to pray to God to give you knowledge and wisdom on these matters, I will say that; but just being honest, when it is time to get down to business, and what you are doing is not working, do not blame God, or blame the other because of their lack of "spirituality". In other words, do not try to sound so spiritual, that you use it as an excuse when things are "dry and dead", so to speak, in the bedroom.
Moving along, the Lord gave me a dream about high heels believe it or not. Also, while I was at work, working, the Lord was speaking to me, and I had to quickly get a pen and paper and take down notes on what God was saying to me.
It is important for a man and a woman to get to know each other as much as possible before they get married. Ask questions about each other. Or, find out what are the likes and dislikes of each other. I believe I said this before. You do not want to wait to find out your spouse's favorite color after you are married. You are supposed to know that before. Another thing you need to find out about is good and bad habits. You do not want to receive horrifying or terrifying surprises from your spouse after marriage.
Women, this is very important. You should NOT shoot your husband in the back, head or heart, or stab your husband anywhere, killing him because he asked you to wear high heels. Especially you Christian women. It is okay for you Christian women, or any woman to wear high heels or pumps, as they call them, for your husband. God will not send you to hell for wearing 2"-inch, 3"-inches, or 5"-inch heels. I am talking about for your husband, and not to church. I would not advise wearing very high heels to church for several reasons. Now, I want to come back to that later in this post, so read everything before you stone me.
Now concerning some other points I need to make. I have preached about making a woman feel good. However, it is important for the men in a relationship to feel good as well. Now, being a man, I know that it is easier for a woman to make a man feel good. There is more to feeling good than the physical part; it also involves visuality and mentality. So, to feel good sometimes stems from how you think and how you see things and yourself.
Now one of the things, that women must know is that looks are very important. Looks are critical. Most men and husbands want a very beautiful wife. Usually a real man wants a beautiful wife. A man, in general, would prefer to meet and talk to, FIRST, a beautiful looking woman. Period!
Now, to be beautiful on the inside is also important. It is important for a woman to be nice and loving on the inside too. However, I do not want to lie to anybody and say that outward looks are not extremely important. Because most men notice outward beauty first.
Now, Jesus said that whosoever, looketh upon a woman to lust after her has committed adultery in his heart. I am just paraphrasing the scripture. Alot of people will say this to attack the man. This is true. Pretty much every real man, unless you are Jesus, himself, who knew no sin, or a muslim/Islamic extremist, or unless you are physically blind, have looked upon a woman and lusted after her.
Most of us men, "probably" in the 97-percent range are guilty of what Jesus said. I have done it. I have had conversations with single and MARRIED men about OTHER beautiful women. It happens. It does not make it right. However, naturally men do it and will continue to do it. It is a part of life, and also one of the weaknesses of being a man. Men did it back in Jesus' day. I am sure Guys had "guy talk" back then during Jesus' time, about women, just as they do today. That is why Jesus said what He said. This is nothing new.
Now you can also admire a woman's beauty without lusting after her; however, most of the time it is lust. Some women will say that there are women who tempt men to lust after them. Well, to some degree that is true; however, as a man I do not blame the women so much.
Very important point I want to make. Again, Jesus said looking upon a woman to lust after her is sin. Men still do it. It is wrong because Jesus said so. "We" as men should not do it, but we do. I am NOT saying it is okay, I am just saying what happens in the real world.
A healthy man is going to be a man and think like a man, and it takes the man to be able to discipline himself. It also helps for the man or men to be encouraged in spiritual things, and to desire to be spiritually minded in the Lord, so as to not lust. We should take heed to the words of Jesus, and live for God, and not our own lust or lust of the flesh. The things of the flesh or natural realm are temporary, but the things of God are everlasting. There I go being spiritual again. What I will do is stop here, and come back with the rest of the high heels subject in the next post.
I am going to mention some things about high heels or pumps right here, further down in this post. I really had to ask the Lord if it was okay to do this post, because it probably will stir up protest from the "holiness community". I was really asking the Lord and contemplating about this. However, the Lord spoke to me and said do it. In addition to this, during the week as I was preparing for this post, other preachers were talking about some of the things I have and am discussing in several of my post on marriage relationships.
The same thing also happened with several other post in the past. So, I believe this is also confirmation from the Lord to speak. Do not look for a whole lot of spirituality in this post and maybe the next one. I believe I am going to be very natural in this post, and several of the next post. I talk about spiritual things all the time. However, I do NOT believe that a couple should mix their spirit life and sex life together. I feel led of the Lord to say that. Too many ministers when talking about relationships between a man and a women, try to throw spirituality in the mix. One thing, being spiritual is unto the Lord, and being sexual is unto your wife or husband, NOT to God. You can still both be spiritual, but there is a time and place for each separately. I will refrain posting the scriptures, for now, from Ecclesiastes 3:1-8. Being spiritual is different from being sexual.
Do not blame it on God, if you can not satisfy your spouse. It is not God's fault. You as a husband or wife need to look at yourself. You do want to pray to God to give you knowledge and wisdom on these matters, I will say that; but just being honest, when it is time to get down to business, and what you are doing is not working, do not blame God, or blame the other because of their lack of "spirituality". In other words, do not try to sound so spiritual, that you use it as an excuse when things are "dry and dead", so to speak, in the bedroom.
Moving along, the Lord gave me a dream about high heels believe it or not. Also, while I was at work, working, the Lord was speaking to me, and I had to quickly get a pen and paper and take down notes on what God was saying to me.
It is important for a man and a woman to get to know each other as much as possible before they get married. Ask questions about each other. Or, find out what are the likes and dislikes of each other. I believe I said this before. You do not want to wait to find out your spouse's favorite color after you are married. You are supposed to know that before. Another thing you need to find out about is good and bad habits. You do not want to receive horrifying or terrifying surprises from your spouse after marriage.
Women, this is very important. You should NOT shoot your husband in the back, head or heart, or stab your husband anywhere, killing him because he asked you to wear high heels. Especially you Christian women. It is okay for you Christian women, or any woman to wear high heels or pumps, as they call them, for your husband. God will not send you to hell for wearing 2"-inch, 3"-inches, or 5"-inch heels. I am talking about for your husband, and not to church. I would not advise wearing very high heels to church for several reasons. Now, I want to come back to that later in this post, so read everything before you stone me.
Now concerning some other points I need to make. I have preached about making a woman feel good. However, it is important for the men in a relationship to feel good as well. Now, being a man, I know that it is easier for a woman to make a man feel good. There is more to feeling good than the physical part; it also involves visuality and mentality. So, to feel good sometimes stems from how you think and how you see things and yourself.
Now one of the things, that women must know is that looks are very important. Looks are critical. Most men and husbands want a very beautiful wife. Usually a real man wants a beautiful wife. A man, in general, would prefer to meet and talk to, FIRST, a beautiful looking woman. Period!
Now, to be beautiful on the inside is also important. It is important for a woman to be nice and loving on the inside too. However, I do not want to lie to anybody and say that outward looks are not extremely important. Because most men notice outward beauty first.
Now, Jesus said that whosoever, looketh upon a woman to lust after her has committed adultery in his heart. I am just paraphrasing the scripture. Alot of people will say this to attack the man. This is true. Pretty much every real man, unless you are Jesus, himself, who knew no sin, or a muslim/Islamic extremist, or unless you are physically blind, have looked upon a woman and lusted after her.
Most of us men, "probably" in the 97-percent range are guilty of what Jesus said. I have done it. I have had conversations with single and MARRIED men about OTHER beautiful women. It happens. It does not make it right. However, naturally men do it and will continue to do it. It is a part of life, and also one of the weaknesses of being a man. Men did it back in Jesus' day. I am sure Guys had "guy talk" back then during Jesus' time, about women, just as they do today. That is why Jesus said what He said. This is nothing new.
Now you can also admire a woman's beauty without lusting after her; however, most of the time it is lust. Some women will say that there are women who tempt men to lust after them. Well, to some degree that is true; however, as a man I do not blame the women so much.
Very important point I want to make. Again, Jesus said looking upon a woman to lust after her is sin. Men still do it. It is wrong because Jesus said so. "We" as men should not do it, but we do. I am NOT saying it is okay, I am just saying what happens in the real world.
A healthy man is going to be a man and think like a man, and it takes the man to be able to discipline himself. It also helps for the man or men to be encouraged in spiritual things, and to desire to be spiritually minded in the Lord, so as to not lust. We should take heed to the words of Jesus, and live for God, and not our own lust or lust of the flesh. The things of the flesh or natural realm are temporary, but the things of God are everlasting. There I go being spiritual again. What I will do is stop here, and come back with the rest of the high heels subject in the next post.
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