Hello World:
This is the second post on the subject of cheating by men. I will have some things to say here in regards to women. I do not want to use a lot of scriptures this time, nor do I want to use percentages or statistics on cheating spouses.
I could have added all of that, but I really just want to get into some practical elements about cheating. I also do not want to use this golfers name at this time, because I do not want to appear to be bashing him more than he already has been. Besides that, this subject of men cheating is really bigger than this American golfer.
He is not the first famous or not so famous man who have cheated on his wife, and he will not be the last. So, even though it may appear and appear to him, that because he is famous and he cheated, that he is on an island by himself, he really, in the grand scheme of things, is not. He just joined a large group of others on the island guilty of the same thing.
Right away I want to go into the many mistresses. First of all, several of the mistresses and particularly the ones who came out publically with the information on the affairs of the golfer WERE VERY WRONG TO COME OUT WITH THIS PUBLICALLY. Before that, it is stupid for the mistresses to think that they going with such a famous and rich person, and knowing he was married, to think they, themselves, were exclusive to him.
You, the mistresses knowing who this man is and going along with his secret meetings and set-ups should not be hurt or betrayed. You should have known, not being his wife that you are pleasure for him.
To some extent he may have cared about you or you all and had feelings about your well being, but the point is you, the mistresses, should not be so surprised that there was someone else, then another, and another or even the possibilities. Again, everybody who knows this famous man pretty much knows he is or was married. You are just on the side willfully feeding his lust, knowing you all have no foreseeable committment. So, you all were going along with his secret plan knowing it was wrong, so again, you should not be so surprised and hurt.
Another thing, about these mistresses or women having these affairs, many of them talk too much. They have loose lips. They are not wise. You do not have to go public about anything. You can do the following: you can NOT get involved with a married man; if you do get involved you can break off the relationship PRIVATELY, or at worse you can come to or communicate to the wife PRIVATELY.
THE WORLD DOES NOT HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT A PERSONS DIRTY LAUNDRY OR EVERYTHING A PERSON DID WRONG IN A CHEATING SITUATION. AGAIN, HOW STUPID OF YOU TO GO TO OR TALK TO ANY MEDIA!!! YOU ARE JUST AS GUILTY AS THE MAN, AND EVEN WORSE BECAUSE YOU CAN NOT KEEP A SECRET OR KNOW WHEN TO SHUT UP!!! I have to go for a 3rd part with this.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Men Cheating On Their Wives 1st Pt.
Hello World:
I feel that God wants me to talk about men cheating on their wives today. There will be several posts on this subject. First thing, it is NOT okay for a man to cheat on his wife, or for a woman to cheat on her husband. It is important when you make a committment to stick with it.
With that said above, both men and women still cheat on their spouses. Here, I kind of want to focus mostly on the men cheating. Whether people like it or not, or want to believe it or not, there are reasons why people, or more specifically here, men cheat with another woman or other women.
I am, again, NOT saying it is right or legitimate, I am just saying there are reasons why men cheat. Later on, I will go into responsibilities that both the husband and, yes, the WIFE has to help prevent a man from cheating. The reason being is that sometimes the wife bears some responsbility; SOMETIMES, NOT always. So, it is not all or always the man's fault, with emphasis on all.
The events that happened with the American golfer who was found last year to have cheated on his wife with multiple other women is what sparked this post. Now men cheating on their wives is nothing new, and much of what I am going to talk about I already had from God a long time ago. It is just that now I feel it necessary to post what God has given me, and viewing this as a man.
When a man is CAUGHT cheating on his wife, and I will stick with the term cheat, and the man comes out and apologizes or says he is sorry for his wrong doing or transgressions; in many circumstances, THE APOLOGY of such knowingly, willful actions of wrongdoing against the wife is NOT sincere.
Usually when a person is doing something that they conscientiously know to be wrong, and they wait until they are exposed to say they are sorry, they usually are NOT sorry for the wrongdoing or hurt they caused the wife and family. They are only saying they are sorry for wrongdoing because they got caught.
It would have been better if the American golfer would have acknowledged his wrongdoing of cheating on his wife, and was sorry and came to her and told her everything and apologized privately before everything came out publically.
Had one or several of the golfer's mistresses not said something or exposed him, which IN THE WAY IT WAS DONE OR CAME OUT is another evil thing done, I will go into that later, he would still be trying to have his pleasure and would not be sorry or apologetic for anything towards his wife.
In others words, it would be better if he apologized to his wife on his own will, without being forced to. Then, it would have been sincere. This goes for not only for the American golfer, but every other man, and women who cheat on their husbands and anybody else in bad situations affecting someone else.
True sorry and repentance is not waiting for things to turn really bad or waiting until you get caught, trying to see how long you can get away with whatever you was doing before you come out and change. I am going to have to do a part 2 on this subject of cheating.
I feel that God wants me to talk about men cheating on their wives today. There will be several posts on this subject. First thing, it is NOT okay for a man to cheat on his wife, or for a woman to cheat on her husband. It is important when you make a committment to stick with it.
With that said above, both men and women still cheat on their spouses. Here, I kind of want to focus mostly on the men cheating. Whether people like it or not, or want to believe it or not, there are reasons why people, or more specifically here, men cheat with another woman or other women.
I am, again, NOT saying it is right or legitimate, I am just saying there are reasons why men cheat. Later on, I will go into responsibilities that both the husband and, yes, the WIFE has to help prevent a man from cheating. The reason being is that sometimes the wife bears some responsbility; SOMETIMES, NOT always. So, it is not all or always the man's fault, with emphasis on all.
The events that happened with the American golfer who was found last year to have cheated on his wife with multiple other women is what sparked this post. Now men cheating on their wives is nothing new, and much of what I am going to talk about I already had from God a long time ago. It is just that now I feel it necessary to post what God has given me, and viewing this as a man.
When a man is CAUGHT cheating on his wife, and I will stick with the term cheat, and the man comes out and apologizes or says he is sorry for his wrong doing or transgressions; in many circumstances, THE APOLOGY of such knowingly, willful actions of wrongdoing against the wife is NOT sincere.
Usually when a person is doing something that they conscientiously know to be wrong, and they wait until they are exposed to say they are sorry, they usually are NOT sorry for the wrongdoing or hurt they caused the wife and family. They are only saying they are sorry for wrongdoing because they got caught.
It would have been better if the American golfer would have acknowledged his wrongdoing of cheating on his wife, and was sorry and came to her and told her everything and apologized privately before everything came out publically.
Had one or several of the golfer's mistresses not said something or exposed him, which IN THE WAY IT WAS DONE OR CAME OUT is another evil thing done, I will go into that later, he would still be trying to have his pleasure and would not be sorry or apologetic for anything towards his wife.
In others words, it would be better if he apologized to his wife on his own will, without being forced to. Then, it would have been sincere. This goes for not only for the American golfer, but every other man, and women who cheat on their husbands and anybody else in bad situations affecting someone else.
True sorry and repentance is not waiting for things to turn really bad or waiting until you get caught, trying to see how long you can get away with whatever you was doing before you come out and change. I am going to have to do a part 2 on this subject of cheating.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Number Of Countries Helping Haiti After Their Earthquake
Hello World:
I composed some information on a list of countries who are helping out Haiti after the recent earthquake hit that country. I want to mention that the information of countries I found is from second hand sources, by which I can not confirm every country. Some I know for a fact are helping.
There are several on this list, I have, that are surprises. I will not list every country here, but I want to believe that all the countries, listed by these sources, as helping Haiti, is true. The following countries I am going to list, keeping in mind are sponsored by their government leaders which is very important to note, and are helping the people of Haiti by giving lots of money, food, water, shelter, time, doctors, medicine and medical care, rescue teams, transportation, and blankets. That is a good thing.
Many, but again, not all listed here, of the countries who have given valuable resources, mentioned above, to help the people of Haiti after the earthquake disaster are the following: Iran, Lebanon, Morocco, Turkey, Jordan, Canada, Spain, Germany, Italy, Sweden, China, United States, Russia, Venezuela, Cuba, Israel, Britain and France.
There are other countries that I did not mention. For those I did not mention, God knows who you are. I want to mention that in addition to Haiti, there are other countries who have poor people who need help, several of those countries are coming to Haiti's aid.
Back in February of 2007, I did a post titled "Needle And Thread, The Impossible?". The Lord reminded me that in that post I said something that He showed me concerning the U. S. military when they were doing unnecessary operations in Iraq. I said the following; "The U.S. military can be diverted to other countries like Sudan, in Darfur for humanitarian protection of refugees, helping with food, medicine and shelter for the poor in countries LIKE Sudan."
I went on to say; "The Lord is showing me that the American troops need to be in countries to prevent further death, genocide and destruction, and that place is not Iraq."
Again, the Lord had me say that back then in 2007, and here we are in 2010, and the U.S. military is doing exactly that in Haiti. It is quite prophetic. Keep also in mind that Haiti was a disaster and needed a lot of help way before the earthquake.
That is why I said in the earlier posts, that I believe God could have did this to get everybody's attention to Haiti, because help for them was long overdue. Now for a change, many countries including Iran, Israel and the U.S. with its military are doing something together, or at least on the side of each other for a worthy or important cause.
I composed some information on a list of countries who are helping out Haiti after the recent earthquake hit that country. I want to mention that the information of countries I found is from second hand sources, by which I can not confirm every country. Some I know for a fact are helping.
There are several on this list, I have, that are surprises. I will not list every country here, but I want to believe that all the countries, listed by these sources, as helping Haiti, is true. The following countries I am going to list, keeping in mind are sponsored by their government leaders which is very important to note, and are helping the people of Haiti by giving lots of money, food, water, shelter, time, doctors, medicine and medical care, rescue teams, transportation, and blankets. That is a good thing.
Many, but again, not all listed here, of the countries who have given valuable resources, mentioned above, to help the people of Haiti after the earthquake disaster are the following: Iran, Lebanon, Morocco, Turkey, Jordan, Canada, Spain, Germany, Italy, Sweden, China, United States, Russia, Venezuela, Cuba, Israel, Britain and France.
There are other countries that I did not mention. For those I did not mention, God knows who you are. I want to mention that in addition to Haiti, there are other countries who have poor people who need help, several of those countries are coming to Haiti's aid.
Back in February of 2007, I did a post titled "Needle And Thread, The Impossible?". The Lord reminded me that in that post I said something that He showed me concerning the U. S. military when they were doing unnecessary operations in Iraq. I said the following; "The U.S. military can be diverted to other countries like Sudan, in Darfur for humanitarian protection of refugees, helping with food, medicine and shelter for the poor in countries LIKE Sudan."
I went on to say; "The Lord is showing me that the American troops need to be in countries to prevent further death, genocide and destruction, and that place is not Iraq."
Again, the Lord had me say that back then in 2007, and here we are in 2010, and the U.S. military is doing exactly that in Haiti. It is quite prophetic. Keep also in mind that Haiti was a disaster and needed a lot of help way before the earthquake.
That is why I said in the earlier posts, that I believe God could have did this to get everybody's attention to Haiti, because help for them was long overdue. Now for a change, many countries including Iran, Israel and the U.S. with its military are doing something together, or at least on the side of each other for a worthy or important cause.
Tuesday, May 04, 2010
Point Five, Should An Adopted Child Be Returned?
Hello World:
Also concerning the reverse adoption of the seven year old Russian boy, and other children who act similar to him, I mentioned before that I believe he is demon possessed. A child who is being possessed by the devil, or a demon or demons, often need to be taken to a church where they can get some serious prayer for deliverance. Praying for God to deliver a child is just as important or even more important than the physical discipline. Parents have to be prepared to do both.
Some children will act up and do bad things sometimes, but will learn, and have a right spirit in them or the spirit of God in them to do right, like I mentioned in the other post. Those children do not need deliverance from demonic possession, they just need occassional discipline. Those are good kids, so to speak. Sometimes they just need a talking to.
However, a child who is constantly acting up, making noise, talking back, threatening and hitting parents, siblings, daycare workers and teachers on a daily basis, has an ungodly and demonic spirit inside of them, and is in need of being purified in Jesus name.
That kind of child mentioned above, making a hitlist, and planning to burn down houses needs, again, serious hands laid on him or her in prayer in the name of Jesus to cast the devil out of him or her. Demons possessing SOME, not all, but some children does actually occur in real life.
Medication or medicating the child is not the right way to do it. God did NOT say in the scriptures, when your child acts up to give him drugs, NO. I recommend keeping behavioral drugs or medicines AWAY from and out of your child's body. In terms of helping your child behave, again, DO NOT alter his or her mental or spiritual faculties through drugs. Use prayer and discipline.
Pray for them all the time. In terms of what age to begin necessary spanking, I researched and agree that it should be after the age of 2, and only MILDLY with a hand then. NO shaking. Then, the older the child gets, and the bigger and stronger the child's frame becomes, the harder you as parents should spank, beat or whip your child.
After 5 years old, a bad child should get thoroughly, painful lashings. Between 9 and 14 years old, a bad child should receive either lashes or a combination of knocks upside the head. If the child gets too big, as a parent you have to get creative. Remember, you do not want to cause permanent physical harm to them.
Hopefully, by the age of 14, the child has learned to behave to the point where you no longer have to beat or spank him or her. However, in a child's teenager year's, sometimes, they still have to learn or be reminded that you call the shots in the home, or you run things in the home, and you pay the bills and not them.
You can also punish your child for bad behavior by grounding them from their favorite activities for a week or two, or removing the television, or toys, or making them sit in the corner too. Those are ways of disciplining them without beating them, and sometimes those way can be effective.
However, especially in their early childhood years, I believe it is important to NOT neglect beatings as endorsed by God, because it builds a foundation for them to fear and respect you, so that later on when they do something bad, all you have to do is speak to them or look at them, and they will straighten up, because they know you mean business. So, in that way, earlier beatings will lead to less and less beatings in the later growing years.
Also, VERY IMPORTANT, you want to teach your child or children honor, by honoring them when they do good things, or behave righteously. You show that you love them when you discipline them, but you also show that you love them when you reward them for good behavior.
You do not have to reward them every time, especially for something they are supposed to do normally. You also do not want to punish them all the time, and when they do good, you never reward them. So, you have to balance the two.
There are different ways of rewards. Rewards do not have to always be gift wrapped. Encouraging words can be a reward. A thank you, or saying I am proud of you, can be a reward.
If a child behaves good most of the time, and that can happen, that is a blessing. The thing is you want to be able to control your child at an early age, well before age 7. You want to love your child or children, and teach them how to love.
Teach them fun or how to have fun; but also teach them to respect others, and teach them responsibility. Teach them how to protect themselves; but moreso teach them how to be creative and NOT destructive. Teach them to believe in God and to fear God; and teach them about Jesus Christ as the Savior.
Also concerning the reverse adoption of the seven year old Russian boy, and other children who act similar to him, I mentioned before that I believe he is demon possessed. A child who is being possessed by the devil, or a demon or demons, often need to be taken to a church where they can get some serious prayer for deliverance. Praying for God to deliver a child is just as important or even more important than the physical discipline. Parents have to be prepared to do both.
Some children will act up and do bad things sometimes, but will learn, and have a right spirit in them or the spirit of God in them to do right, like I mentioned in the other post. Those children do not need deliverance from demonic possession, they just need occassional discipline. Those are good kids, so to speak. Sometimes they just need a talking to.
However, a child who is constantly acting up, making noise, talking back, threatening and hitting parents, siblings, daycare workers and teachers on a daily basis, has an ungodly and demonic spirit inside of them, and is in need of being purified in Jesus name.
That kind of child mentioned above, making a hitlist, and planning to burn down houses needs, again, serious hands laid on him or her in prayer in the name of Jesus to cast the devil out of him or her. Demons possessing SOME, not all, but some children does actually occur in real life.
Medication or medicating the child is not the right way to do it. God did NOT say in the scriptures, when your child acts up to give him drugs, NO. I recommend keeping behavioral drugs or medicines AWAY from and out of your child's body. In terms of helping your child behave, again, DO NOT alter his or her mental or spiritual faculties through drugs. Use prayer and discipline.
Pray for them all the time. In terms of what age to begin necessary spanking, I researched and agree that it should be after the age of 2, and only MILDLY with a hand then. NO shaking. Then, the older the child gets, and the bigger and stronger the child's frame becomes, the harder you as parents should spank, beat or whip your child.
After 5 years old, a bad child should get thoroughly, painful lashings. Between 9 and 14 years old, a bad child should receive either lashes or a combination of knocks upside the head. If the child gets too big, as a parent you have to get creative. Remember, you do not want to cause permanent physical harm to them.
Hopefully, by the age of 14, the child has learned to behave to the point where you no longer have to beat or spank him or her. However, in a child's teenager year's, sometimes, they still have to learn or be reminded that you call the shots in the home, or you run things in the home, and you pay the bills and not them.
You can also punish your child for bad behavior by grounding them from their favorite activities for a week or two, or removing the television, or toys, or making them sit in the corner too. Those are ways of disciplining them without beating them, and sometimes those way can be effective.
However, especially in their early childhood years, I believe it is important to NOT neglect beatings as endorsed by God, because it builds a foundation for them to fear and respect you, so that later on when they do something bad, all you have to do is speak to them or look at them, and they will straighten up, because they know you mean business. So, in that way, earlier beatings will lead to less and less beatings in the later growing years.
Also, VERY IMPORTANT, you want to teach your child or children honor, by honoring them when they do good things, or behave righteously. You show that you love them when you discipline them, but you also show that you love them when you reward them for good behavior.
You do not have to reward them every time, especially for something they are supposed to do normally. You also do not want to punish them all the time, and when they do good, you never reward them. So, you have to balance the two.
There are different ways of rewards. Rewards do not have to always be gift wrapped. Encouraging words can be a reward. A thank you, or saying I am proud of you, can be a reward.
If a child behaves good most of the time, and that can happen, that is a blessing. The thing is you want to be able to control your child at an early age, well before age 7. You want to love your child or children, and teach them how to love.
Teach them fun or how to have fun; but also teach them to respect others, and teach them responsibility. Teach them how to protect themselves; but moreso teach them how to be creative and NOT destructive. Teach them to believe in God and to fear God; and teach them about Jesus Christ as the Savior.
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